Hello lovely ladies (and gentlemen)! Welcome back! I love my friends so much. Everytime we hang out its such a blast and I’m always so goofy and crazy around them. (Yeah I know, SOOOO not… More
Hello friend! Its been a while 🙂 I’m so excited because we are finally just over halfway through January! School is now back in full swing and I’m happily chugging away at my work and having lots of fun while at it. This weekend we have swimming districts and I’m so excited to compete are represent my school!
All of this is awesome, and if I’m being honest sometimes its easy to get caught up worrying about everything I have to do, which is why I am sharing my 3 secrets to staying stress free (student edition) You can’t stop stress but you can prevent it!
Take a Deep Breath
This is so important on so many levels I can’t talk about it enough; stop pushing yourself to the point of breaking. It’s okay if you aren’t the student who is class president and swim team captain and the lead in the newest play and is involved in a dozen other clubs. You need some me-time and that’s okay.
I understand. We, the billions of other students and even working adults in this world, we understand. Want to know why? Because that’s me. I want to be in every extra-curricular possible and I want to have the best grades and be a fully invested member of my church who serves every Sunday, but the reality is that at some point I’m going to have to pick and choose which ones I’m going to delete so that I can have some me-time. Go for a walk. Try out that new coffee shop. Read your favorite blog 😉 It’s okay, we understand.
Put Down Your Phone
We live in a social media age. Our lives revolve around the lives and opinions of the people around us. That’s just how we were raised. If the people around us don’t like what we’re doing, whether it’s on social media or through other forms of communication (Yeah that one called talking…not sure if it still works or anything but it’s possible…)
So yes. Put down your phone. Stop looking at how many text messages you have or likes you have on your Instagram post. And listen I know I’m preaching to myself too. Try to go 2 Hours every day (When you’re awake) without your phone. Don’t even check it. Whatever important business you have can wait, trust me.
Get Some Great Friends You Can Count On
I don’t think I can say this enough, and that’s because I can’t count the number of times I’ve had to count on my friends to get me through an otherwise chaotic week. Its always comforting to know that if I forgot my lunch I can ask a friend for some cash to buy some or if I spilled sometjing on my shirt I can borrow a new one. I’m not saying you should use your friends, but you should be able to count on them to come through when it counts.
That’s it! Those are my top 3 secrets to living stress free! Of course you can’t prevent having a crazy week, but you can always make your life easier 🙂 what do you usually do to deal with stress? Let me know in the comments down below!
This year America’s former First Lady, Michelle Obama published her unique and female-enpowering memoir titled BECOMING. Although, as with most celebrities, I don’t completely agree with all of her opinions, I really enjoyed reading her book and learning more about what made her and President Obama the driven powerhouse couple that they are.
And that was what I was expecting. Before reading the memoir, I read several reviews that said it was just that, but the book also came with some surprises.
In her 3-part life story, Michelle walks you through the struggles she went through to get to where she is today, both as an African-American but also as a female on a male-dominated world. She talks about heartbreak and triumph and love and her own personal struggles. She talks about what it was like to loose several of her mentors and close friends. She talks about how hard it was to be a mom and the First Lady at the same time.
My favorite part about the whole book is how Michelle doesn’t make the book about her. She brings in people who were close to her and some who weren’t and even you, and she talks about how hard she wanted to work to make our world a better place.
Although one could argue that Michelle brings too much politics into her book, I personally believe that she had a good balance; she wasn’t overly persuasive with it and even talks avout how much she HATES the political division in America today.
For any girl that wants to be a part of the working world, and even those that don’t, Michelle’s book is inspiring because her story encourages girls to go after their passions, whatever they are.
What is one of your favorite inspiring books? Have you read Michelle Obama’s Book? If so what were your thoughts? Let me know in the comments below!
Hello to all of my beautiful readers! This post has been super hard to write, while also super easy at the same time. It’s January now! If you’re like me you’ve probably just hit your “I don’t want to do work right now” point of the year. Is it just me or is that a thing?
Hello there friend! So I’m sure youve probably noticed this but recently I took a break from the world of blogging. And I’m not talking a short “two weeks break and I’m done” Haitus I’m talking two months no social media no comments no likes: nothing.
First I want to say I’m sorry. This blog wouldn’t be possible without so many incredible and amazing followers and readers like you. Why? Because you guys encourage me, and because this blog isn’t just for me it’s for you too.
Next I’m going to be honest: I took tuis hiatus entirely for selfish reasons. I needed to focus on school and sports and finding myself amidst growing depression, anxiety, and I think I finally have. And this leads me to my first point of this spur of the moment blog post:
It’s Okay to Be Selfish Sometimes
Yes. I just said that. “But sharing is caring!” Yes but share with yourself FIRST. I can’t help you guys if I’m drowning in my own problems and dilemmas. If I’m failing a class or if I’m incredibly stressed while getting ready for school then something needs to change.
Sometimes We Don’t Realize How Much Things Consume Us
This blog was consuming my life. Literally. And not all in bad ways. It has become a place where I’m not afraid to express myself and how I view the world. I’m not afraid to talk about things I’ve gone through and give y’all some good advice, but in some ways it was taking up way too much time. I was spending a minimum of 3 hrs every week on blog posts and Pinterest and instagram alone and that doesnt count contacting companies and trying to get sponsors. In short this blog was consuming so much time and energy, and I didnt even realize until I took a break.
It’s Okay to be Confident in Your Decisions
I’m not by nature a confident person, in fact I like to maintain a steady stream of questions challenging my ideals because in the end I know that I will choose what I believe in. During my haitus I’ve had to make loads of hard decisions and some of them were hard to stand by, but now looking back on them I’m POSITIVE I made the right decision.
We Are All Beautiful In Our Own Unique Way
As humans, especially as girls in todays society, we are constantly comparing ourselves with the people around us. Because of our social media apps, we are constantly seeing people’s good sides and are forced to compare ourselves with a, lets be honest, unrealistic standard. But I’m here right now to tell you that you are beautiful and you are enough, and you might not be like that celebrity on tv but thats because you are uniquely you.
I am Strong Enough to Overcome Life’s Greatest Challenges
The biggest reason I took a break was because I was dealing with some serious self-hate and anxiety and stress, and although these were mostly internal problems, they were hard for me to cope with for a while. Even now I don’t have it all together, but thats okay because I’ve learned ways to fight back. Sometimes when you feel the thoughts of “you’re not good enough” coming in you have to replace them with “I AM more than enough”
Thank you all SO SO much for reading my small insignificant post! What are some major life lessons you’ve learned this year? I’d be so so happy to read them! Comment down below.
Disclaimer: By making this recipe, I do not in any way claim to like mornings
Good-morning sunshine! Wakey-wakey because today is a new and Gorgeous day, and you are going to do great things! Okay, yes you caught me. I’m ACTUALLY writing this at midnight, because I really don’t like mornings.
*Disclaimer: Sorry to all the What a Gorgeous Day dudes, but this one is for my ladies…feel free to read this post though, so you know how to treat the ladies in your life when their time comes.
Hey Girls! So if you’ve made it this far, you probably already know about the monster that attacks all of us during our time of the month. Ah yes…shark week. That beautiful time where you’re practically dying of pain and disgust.
Hey guys! Happy Friday! Today I finished my second week of school! How exciting is that? Although there’s a lot of work to be done, I’m super excited to learn all I can in my Sophomore year.
Here’s something I’ve realized though: I’m beginning to have an increasing amount of homework and assignments, which need to be done in quiet and in my own space. That’s why I decided to work a little more on my desk and how to keep it organized, starting with the AMAZING clipboard organizers! Do you want to learn how to make them? Let’s get to it!
*Disclaimer: You don’t have to be in school to make these notebooks…they’re just that adorable!
Hey guys! I’m gonna be incredibly honest with you: I am SO excited to go back to school. Yes, I hate the countless hours in the classroom, the drama, and the EXTREME work load, but I LOVE learning and keeping myself busy. Of course, it’s also easy to be excited about the new school month, when you have the CUTEST notebooks EVER!
I’m just gonna be honest here: the past few months have been tough for me. Like really tough. Like “I-feel-like-my-whole-life-is-falling-apart” tough. And I know you’re probably asking yourself the great big gigantic question of “WHY?”. Well don’t worry because the entire reason of this post is to explain the “WHY’s” and the “HOW’s”. Hopefully it will help you all as well, because that’s the entire mission of this blog: to help you all be the best you can! Don’t worry because I’m growing as well, and here is a place where we only accept honesty. Ready to learn how to say “Goodbye” easily?
Hello everyone! Today, I’d just like to start off by thanking my 301 beautiful subscribers! You guys are AMAZING! I wish I could thank every single one of you individually, but unfortunately none of us have that kind of time. (Haha but don’t we all wish we did???) So just imagine I’m giving a great big hug and saying “THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU” over and over again, because let’s be honest, that’s what I’m doing right now!